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Saturday, September 12, 2009

Baby Update

* An ultrasound yesterday showed that baby Tencza weighs about 5 pounds 11 ounces which is 6 more ounces than Tara was when she was born at 38 weeks. I am 37 weeks now so this one might prove to be a little bit bigger. I don't see my doctor until next Friday again but she predicts the week of the 20th (a possible 21st induction but nothing certain yet) She has already told me that going full term is out of the question but 38 or 39 weeks is good. I am starting to swell quite a bit in my feet and hands so I am thinking she'll end up inducing me, especially if my BP goes up again like with Tara.

*I started work again last Tuesday. It was a little more difficult going back than I anticipated. My students seem great but my energy level is low. My back and feet are killing me by the afternoon. I am sure I should be sitting down more than I am but the first week of school is so busy, it is hard to do. Thank goodness I do not teach Kindergarten! I don't think I would have been able to go back to work. I think that next Friday (the 18th) will be my last day with students until my return from maternity leave. I am still not sure when I will be back. It's a battle I have yet to fight with "The Boss". By "The Boss", I do not mean my boss at work. Unfortunately, George thinks that I should be able to return to work six weeks after a child whom I have kept inside me for 9 months (a majority of that time not being able to see my feet or keep bodily functions in), decides to come barreling out of my special place, demands to be fed every 2 hours, does not recognize day from night, whose big sister also refuses to sleep at appropriate times without bribes and incentives, I could go on...and come to work to educate 26 innocent children whose parents have trusted that I teach them neccessary 5th grade things before moving on to middle school. I, on the other hand, feel that in order to do all of my jobs (wife, mother, teacher, friend, daughter...) I need to go back when I feel I can handle them all without completely losing it, or my job! Sorry MEN, but you will never understand what it's like to be a mom, and maybe that's okay with you, but also don't try to make decisions about things like this unless you are fully ready to be splitting the work load! I have heard a thousand times how much my wonderful husband does not like newborns so I am not sure why he would want to sign up for the night time feeding and changing part?! Needless to say it is still up for discussion according to me. He still believes he's "The Boss" and can make decisions he clearly knows nothing about. We'll see about that!

*Disclaimer: The previous paragraph is not to degrade George's ability as a good dad or husband. He is both. He continues to amaze me with his patience with Tara and this could be that she has him wrapped around all 10 of her fingers. Regardless, he is great with her and she adores him. He is also very good at his job. So good, in fact, that he still has time to fly RC airplanes, shoot his new bow, play video games, and hang out with his friends. I am very proud of him for having the courage to start his own business and expand it in a way that supports his family. He has worked very hard in the last 10 years to get where he is now.

1 comment:

Jay and Emily said...

Congrats on the new baby girl!!!! I know that your labor and delivery is done now, but you are so right. Some men don't get it and never will. Just take care of yourself. Your family needs you to be healthy, rested and well before you can really take care of anyone or anything else. You have to put yourself first as hard as it is to do as a mom. Take care and congrats again!